How to Get Fucked Right: A Proper Bottoming Guide

🧼 Cleaning Out (Douching 101)

• Use a bulb-style anal douche with lukewarm water

• Lubricate the nozzle and insert gently

• Squeeze water in, hold, release on toilet

• Repeat 2–3 times until water runs mostly clear

• Do this 30–60 minutes before play

• Don’t overdo it—no soap, no power-washing your guts

• Some mess is natural. Clean is good, sterile is unnecessary

💦 Lube (Use More. No, More.)

• Silicone-based lube for long, slick sessions

• Water-based lube for silicone toys

• Never use numbing creams or oil-based lubes

• Lube the toy, your hole, and any fingers going inside

• Reapply often—there’s no such thing as too much

🔒 Condom Use on Toys

• Use condoms on shared toys or strap-ons

• Change condoms between holes and between people

• Keeps things clean, safe, and respectful

• Also makes cleanup way easier

🐢 Go Slow or Don’t Go In

• Breathe. Relax. Don’t clench

• Let your body invite the toy in, not fight it

• Push out slightly as it enters—yes, really

• If it burns, pause. Add more lube.

• First times should feel like stretch and pressure, not pain

🧍‍♂️ Best Positions for Beginners

• On your back (legs up): controlled, intimate, easy to adjust

• Doggy: submissive, easy to present, easier depth control. This is a little more intense than being on your back.

• Use pillows under hips or knees to support yourself

• Change positions only if you're relaxed and warmed up

🍑 Stretching & Training Your Hole

• Start with small plugs

• Train regularly: 3–4 times/week for best results

• Always use lube when inserting and removing

• Move up sizes slowly over time—no jumping

• Never force it. If it hurts, stop

🕯 Setting the Mood (For Your Mind + Mine)

• Clean space. Towels, toys, lube, lighting ready

• Use music, candles, scent if it helps you relax

• Set a safeword and talk limits before play

• Feeling safe = taking it deeper. Trust leads to surrender

🎓 Playing with Experienced Tops

• Be honest about your experience and limits

• Ask questions before the scene, not mid-thrust

• During play: obey, breathe, moan. Speak only when needed

• Show gratitude and listen to feedback

• Good subs get trained. Great ones get used again

Memorize this. Practice this. Serve well.
I’m not going to waste my time on an unprepared hole.

Be clean. Be slick. Be ready.
Mistress will handle the rest.